Steve Muto Bully Can’t Help Himself

It’s well known that Steve THE CHEATER Muto BULLY has no self-control and never has, but you should.  As this post suggests, all you so-called FRIENDS of Steve’s on social media will be called out and exposed on this website as long as you AT-A-BOY the BULLY and YOU become complicit in the gas-lighting of his family.  Why don’t you all do something for the community instead and get this boy some help.  He needs to GROW UP and begin to do the right thing by his family.  In the meantime, this will continue.  So here’s to you DAVID STEPHENS, … Continue reading

Big Kahuna Bully #BKB Defined

Steve Muto Bully - BigKahunaBully

Steve Muto - Kelly Muto - Big Kahuna Bully Identity

Steve and Kelly Muto have exploded onto Social Media over the last 6 months.  What’s it all about?  It is in everyone’s best interest to reveal what all the fuss is over.

Well, it’s about Big Kahuna Bully and what it means? #BKB?  There is also #HBB (Hawaii Bound Bitches).  They got the “bitches” part right. #HBB?

Known Family Serial Bully, Steve Muto, created a fake Twitter Bully Identity @BigKahunaBully … Continue reading

The Most Anticipated Muto (Murdock) – 50th Wedding Anniversary EXTRAVAGANZA!

Grandparents thought they were being given a peaceful Hawaiian 50th Wedding Anniversary Vacation.

UPDATE 2018: Now titled: 50th Wedding Anniversary EXTRAVAGANZA – I’M SORRY I CHEATED Hawaiian Vacation

Little did they know, Steve and Kelly had something more adventurous in mind. A Honeymoon / Bucket List Tour 2015 courtesy of God Speed.

Skydiving? Check
Shark diving? Check
Bucket List Tour? Check
Leave Grandparents at house? Check
Consolation attendance at Grandparent’s Wish List events?  Not so much.
Keep up Bully Campaign, from Hawaii, on the relatives back on the mainland with dozens and dozens of Indirect Cyber-Bully … Continue reading

The Narcissist’s Dilemma: They Can Dish It Out, But . . .

Sure, the narcissist’s many defenses protect them–but at what cost?

Post published by Leon F Seltzer Ph.D. on Oct 12, 2011 in Evolution of the Self

The ability to take criticism well depends mostly on how secure we feel about ourselves. Yet it could hardly be said that any of us actually enjoys being criticized. For it’s a challenge to avoid feeling defensive when we experience ourselves as attacked. At such times, it’s more “natural”–or rather, more aligned with our conditioning–to go into self-protective mode. And typically, the way we choose to protect ourselves is through denying the … Continue reading

Muto’s – Keeping Up the Jet-Setter Appearances

The Parents of Steve Muto (Ron and Ruth Muto) are addicted to the “Jet-setter” lifestyle.

So much so, they will do practically anything, obviously, based on their actions this week, to get a free ride on their next Vacation.

Anything with a free, plane ticket, boat ride or trip on a merry-go-round.  They don’t care who they stomp on, or hurt, on their way to the airport or loading dock, watch out here they come.  They surely don’t care if they permanently damage their grand-kids, kids, in-laws. Shine it!  “Who … Continue reading

Anonymity, Speed of Communication, and the Power of the Hive Mind

The power of the hive mind.

It is the speed of communication on the Internet—not just the anonymity—that makes it such a dangerous place. Rumors that would have taken weeks to reach the public consciousness in the pre-Internet age can rouse the Twitchfork-wielding rabble in an instant.

There’s a quote attributed to psychology pioneer William James that voices the principle at work here: “there’s nothing so absurd that if you repeat it often enough, people will believe it.”

That kind of mass-repetition can now happen on social media in a matter of minutes.

I’ve observed that once people have repeated … Continue reading

Steve Muto Reveals Himself as “BigKahunaBully”

BIGKAHUNABULLY

Steve Muto’s Bully Alter Ego…
Kelly Muto endearingly, “My Thuggish Hubby!

Steve Muto - Kelly Muto - Big Kahuna Bully Identity

 The “BigKahunaBully” Idol from Steve Muto’s Bully Twitter Site @BigKahunaBully
Steve began posting to his Facebook Page http://facebook.com/cartrucker, as “BigKahunaBully.” February 2015

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Steve Muto – Bully Long Haul Trucker?

Steve Muto a Bully Long Haul Trucker?
Yes, he is proud of the title because he filled his social media outlets with Trucks, Bully Posts and Personal Posts.

For the past several month’s Steve has been proudly displaying “His Wife, Himself and this big bright orange truck on Twitter.

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Unbeknownst to most, Steve had created a Bully identity on Twitter as well.  BigKahunaBully.

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Bully Posts from the Road

Bully Posts from the Road with Steve Muto.

Steve travels this beautiful country of ours as a Long Haul Trucker.  He stops from place to place and must have quite a bit of free time on his hands to Cyber-Bully.  We can see each of these posts are from somewhere out there.  Can only stand to reason he must be Long Haul Trucking. Right?

This is just a sampling of what you can find “from the road” as one of Steve’s “Friends” on Facebook and Twitter…

Steve Muto Bully, Keeps It Up, Won’t Stop

This is Steve Muto’s last round of Serial Family Cyber-Bully Attacks on @BigKahunaBully Twitter.

Targeting Several Family Members…

Posted June 28th, 2015.  Just won’t stop…

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 Posted June 23rd, 2015.  Just won’t stop…

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The blame is all you Steve Muto Bully.  There is no one else out … Continue reading

The House That Steve Hated

Well folks, this is the house that was found, as a diamond in the rough by the family, not Steve.  Situated on the beautiful south side of Kailua Beach, HI.  Months of filtering and searching, phone calls, late nights and long days for just the right place with just the right room count, bathroom count, separate accommodations for Steve and Kelly (if they chose) in their own house next to the main house.  It was perfect for the group that was intending on going.  Under construction, but if you could see the vision of what and where the house was … Continue reading

Grandiose Narcissists Can’t Stop Talking About Their Perfect Worlds

The classic grandiose narcissists performs at center stage in the spotlight. (This post refers to male and female narcissists.) He/she demands your total unblinking attention. I recall a number of these individuals whom I have known personally and professionally. They grab the psychological space in a room. They regal us with stories of their perfect lives.

How often have you been psychologically accosted by a narcissistic personality? They won’t leave you alone. They are filled with stories of their latest triumphs. They talk about their superior family members who … Continue reading

Narcissist Check List – Read it Now!

You probably know someone, after reading the Narcissist Check List, that will meet some, most, or all of the Criteria on this list.
The Muto Family has a number of members that this could be their manifesto.

Steve Muto Bully - The Scapegoat Dynamic

Narcissist Check List:

  • Two faced, putting friends and family down behind their backs.
  • Tendency to blame their lack of success and failures on others.
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    Murder on your mind?

    Looks like Steve and Kelly have a little Murder on their minds…

    Steve Muto Big Kahuna Bully - Pulp Fiction Scene Reference

    Yeah Kelly, OMG is right.  BigKahunaBully agrees with Sam.

    Steve Muto Bully - Murder on my Mind Wine

    After months of never ending family bullying Steve finally reveals his true feelings.  “Murder on … Continue reading

    Bullying In Families Is More Covert

    Sometimes bullying, especially in families, is more covert.

    If you call out an adult bully, they reply with incredulity, “I was just asking questions! I can’t believe you took it that way,” putting the blame back on you. And then you start to wonder if you’re the crazy one. Yet even if you turn yourself inside out to try to please the bully, you never will, because bullies thrive on the feeling of instilling fear. Meet one demand and they’ll come up with another.

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    5 Ways Drivers Can Protect Themselves Against Bully Truckers

    By on February 10, 2014

    truck-accident-lawyerAccidents between tractor trailers and passenger vehicles are on the rise and so are injuries and fatalities connected with these crashes.

    Since many businesses depend on trucking companies to deliver their merchandise to customers, truckers face deadlines for hauling cargo to specific destinations. While most truckers follow the rules of the road in the course of their job, some exhibit bad driving behavior and pose dangerous risks on the highway.

    According to statistics from the Federal Motor … Continue reading

    15 Reasons Why You Are The Most Annoying Person On Facebook

    You probably have thought of at least one person when you saw the name of this list; it’s that person, who no matter how much you love him or her or how great of a friend he or she can be in real life, he or she is without a doubt, the most annoying person on your Facebook news feed. Check out the list of 15 ways to tell if someone is insufferably bad at Facebook.

    Oh, and you may want to make sure that somehow, that annoying friend of yours takes a look at this, too. Think of it … Continue reading

    The Narcissist Defined

    We’ve all met one at some point. A man or woman who seems to believe they are the center of the universe. Arrogant, callous and manipulative, they force the world around them to accommodate this belief.

    Self-important and conceited, the narcissist exaggerates accomplishments, requires endless praise, and has an uncanny ability to quash the achievements of others. They lack empathy and don’t seem aware that you are a whole person with your own needs. In fact, you’re only a useful tool, something to extract admiration from. The narcissist believes they’re entitled to everything, including your time, your emotions and your self-esteem.

    The dramatic attempts to hold your attention … Continue reading

    Steve’s Over-the-Top Countdown

    Steve’s Over-the-Top Cursed Hawaiian Vacation “Countdown” has to go down as one of the most ridiculous displays of narcissism ever witnessed.

    The time and energy it took to try prove something to everyone, what we don’t know, but it is quite a body of work when you assemble it all into a single list.  This took hours mind you.  By the way, he did all of with the knowledge of having destroyed the relationships and family vacation that had been worked on so hard by other members of his family.

    Marvel at the narcissism on display.  Just take a look … Continue reading

    Hey Kelly, check out who Steve was following on Twitter

    Steve Muto has “followed” some very interesting Twitter sites.

    @Cartucker

    Ass Bible?  Bubble Butt? Bro Humor?

    Ass Bible

    Looks like an ASS MAN.  You’d have to be!

    Ass Man

    Big, Bigger, Beshine?

    Tiny Weiner

    Twitter “Following” is a lot more revealing that I originally thought!

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    The Inevitability of Fractured Sibling Relationships in Dysfunctional Families

    Recently, I found myself sitting with a patient Elsa, who was crying inconsolably in my office. It turns out that her sister had stolen her inheritance out from under her. It wasn’t the loss of the money that was making her feel so devastated, though; it was the shocking betrayal by her only sibling.

    Elsa’s sister Joyce had gotten their dying mother to change her will at the last minute, leaving everything to her. Their mother had been ill for a long time and Joyce had found a way to … Continue reading

    Steve and Kelly Dental News?

    Everyone on Facebook must be curious about the latest Dental News from the Muto’s judging by the number of posts related to dentistry.  Tune in for narcissistic updates of things no one actually cares about but get thrown up on Facebook anyway.

    Look at my perty smile Kells!  Come ‘ear give me a big ‘ole smooch.

    Steve Muto Sick Puppy Bully

     

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    Max Rub It In Your Face

    Steve and Kelly Muto thought they were so cute and funny making this their Facebook Profile Picture.
    It’s only been up like this for mmm, 6 MONTHS.  Nah, no shove it their noses it here.

    Quite an attractive look for the both of them!

    Steve and Kelly Muto - Hyenas Mating

    You Decide.

    Act Like a Fool – Bully Steve Muto

    Steve Muto and Wife, Kelly Muto Dressing Up?

    Anyone else thinking what we’re thinking?

    Steve Muto wouldn’t have been caught dead in a costume like these.
    Ah, Married Life…

    Steve Muto and Kelly Muto Acting Like Fools

    “Oh, Your Such an Animal Steve.”  “You big Bully you…”

    Steve Muto Bully, Kelly Muto Bully - Kelly Dressing Steve like a Doll

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    Kelly Muto – Selfie Obsessed Narcissist? You Decide.

    Unadulterated Narcissism on display, just a few of the many, many, many “Kelly Muto Selfies.”

    Kelly Muto Self Obsorbed Bitch

    Posted on Facebook, for the “Me” generation to ignore.

    Kelly Muto Bully - Selfie Obsessed 3

    Kelly Muto Teresa McKenna Bully