Grandparents thought they were being given a peaceful Hawaiian 50th Wedding Anniversary Vacation.
UPDATE 2018: Now titled: 50th Wedding Anniversary EXTRAVAGANZA – I’M SORRY I CHEATED Hawaiian Vacation
Little did they know, Steve and Kelly had something more adventurous in mind. A Honeymoon / Bucket List Tour 2015 courtesy of God Speed.
Skydiving? Check Shark diving? Check Bucket List Tour? Check Leave Grandparents at house? Check Consolation attendance at Grandparent’s Wish List events? Not so much. Keep up Bully Campaign, from Hawaii, on the relatives back on the mainland with dozens and dozens of Indirect Cyber-Bully … Continue reading →
At least, the reasons they give for staying married…
Steve and Kelly Muto – Why Bully’s in a Bad Marriage Stay Married
Not infrequently, patients come to my office telling me in detail everything wrong with their marriages. These complaints are not unusual, but they are usually heart-felt. They include a whole range of misbehavior’s on the part of their spouses. Sometimes there is only one serious transgression, such as a prolonged infidelity or drug use, including Continue reading →
It is the speed of communication on the Internet—not just the anonymity—that makes it such a dangerous place. Rumors that would have taken weeks to reach the public consciousness in the pre-Internet age can rouse the Twitchfork-wielding rabble in an instant.
There’s a quote attributed to psychology pioneer William James that voices the principle at work here: “there’s nothing so absurd that if you repeat it often enough, people will believe it.”
That kind of mass-repetition can now happen on social media in a matter of minutes.
Well folks, this is the house that was found, as a diamond in the rough by the family, not Steve. Situated on the beautiful south side of Kailua Beach, HI. Months of filtering and searching, phone calls, late nights and long days for just the right place with just the right room count, bathroom count, separate accommodations for Steve and Kelly (if they chose) in their own house next to the main house. It was perfect for the group that was intending on going. Under construction, but if you could see the vision of what and where the house was … Continue reading →
You probably know someone, after reading the Narcissist Check List, that will meet some, most, or all of the Criteria on this list. The Muto Family has a number of members that this could be their manifesto.
Narcissist Check List:
Two faced, putting friends and family down behind their backs.
Tendency to blame their lack of success and failures on others.
You probably have thought of at least one person when you saw the name of this list; it’s that person, who no matter how much you love him or her or how great of a friend he or she can be in real life, he or she is without a doubt, the most annoying person on your Facebook news feed. Check out the list of 15 ways to tell if someone is insufferably bad at Facebook.
Oh, and you may want to make sure that somehow, that annoying friend of yours takes a look at this, too. Think of it … Continue reading →
We’ve all met one at some point. A man or woman who seems to believe they are the center of the universe. Arrogant, callous and manipulative, they force the world around them to accommodate this belief.
Self-important and conceited, the narcissist exaggerates accomplishments, requires endless praise, and has an uncanny ability to quash the achievements of others. They lack empathy and don’t seem aware that you are a whole person with your own needs. In fact, you’re only a useful tool, something to extract admiration from. The narcissist believes they’re entitled to everything, including your time, your emotions and your self-esteem.
Steve’s Over-the-Top Cursed Hawaiian Vacation “Countdown” has to go down as one of the most ridiculous displays of narcissism ever witnessed.
The time and energy it took to try prove something to everyone, what we don’t know, but it is quite a body of work when you assemble it all into a single list. This took hours mind you. By the way, he did all of with the knowledge of having destroyed the relationships and family vacation that had been worked on so hard by other members of his family.
Recently, I found myself sitting with a patient Elsa, who was crying inconsolably in my office. It turns out that her sister had stolen her inheritance out from under her. It wasn’t the loss of the money that was making her feel so devastated, though; it was the shocking betrayal by her only sibling.
Elsa’s sister Joyce had gotten their dying mother to change her will at the last minute, leaving everything to her. Their mother had been ill for a long time and Joyce had found a way to … Continue reading →
Everyone on Facebook must be curious about the latest Dental News from the Muto’s judging by the number of posts related to dentistry. Tune in for narcissistic updates of things no one actually cares about but get thrown up on Facebook anyway.
Look at my perty smile Kells! Come ‘ear give me a big ‘ole smooch.